What is bullying?
Bullying is when someone:
- keeps picking on you again and again and tries to make you feel bad
- says or does lots of mean things that upset you
- makes fun of you a lot
- tries to stop you from joining in or make others not like you
- keeps hurting you such as hitting or punching you.
Bullying feels awful. You feel like you can’t stop it.
Bullying can happen in person or online (sometimes called cyberbullying). It might be something people can see or it might be hidden.
Sometimes you might have a fight or argument with someone. If it happens once, it is not bullying even though it can be upsetting. It is also not bullying if you sometimes fight with a friend and you can sort it out.
Bullying is not okay. You have the right to feel safe.
If you don’t feel safe, get help right now from your mum, dad, teacher, or an adult who will listen to you!
Why does it happen?
It’s never okay to be mean. It’s never okay to hurt others.
When people bully, it might be because:
- they think it’s cool
- they get angry about something and they take it out on someone else
- they don’t know how to get along with others
- they think it’s funny to hurt people
- they think other people will laugh too.
Regardless of the reason, there’s no excuse for bullying.
Bullying. No Way!
Bullying. No Way! is a website that offers practical resources and information to help students, parents, teachers and other members of the school community to work together against bullying, harassment and violence.
The Bullying. No Way! website contains evidence based resources that are supported by all Australian education jurisdictions. This national site has portals tailored to the needs of Parents, Students, Young Children, and Teachers, plus a dedicated section for the annual National Day of Action against Bullying and Violence.
Bullying. No Way! is an initiative of the Safe and Supportive School Communities (SSSC) Working Group. The SSSC includes education representatives from the Commonwealth and all states and territories, as well as national Catholic and independent schooling representatives. Project members work together to support schools to create learning environments where every student and school community member is safe, supported, respected, valued – and free from bullying.
To create safe and supportive school environments, free from bullying, harassment and violence, schools, parents and students all need to send the clear message to young people that bullying and violence, in or outside of school, are not okay at any time.
Reproduced with permission from Bullying. No Way! (2015, Department of Education and Training, Queensland / Australian Education Authorities)